Exactly What Do Girls Truly Want In A Man – Not A Friend?

by Julie on May 12, 2010

As a woman myself, I’m sure many girls don’t actually know how to answer this question. They do know the things they like and what they don´t like but quite often those things plainly don´t match.

Let me reveal a fascinating wisdom – “What girls wish and what they are attracted to are usually two different things.”

Women believe they want a guy having a good sense of humor, supportive, thoughtful and so forth, but oddly enough more regularly , the nice guy typically ends up being only a pal. There isn’t a true attracktion.

I’ve met plenty of guys who sadly are caught up with this particular “nice guy” image which they simply cannot find a way to shake. It’s just like a curse.

All it really comes down to yet is confidence in attracting women and never becoming friends with girls. Obviously these two things are very different.

Girls look at guys diversely than guys when they look at females. Usually men think of all girls as a possible candidate for sex. Girls however, don’t think in such a manner.

Girls think they are either “attracted” or “not attracted”. But attraction is often produced even if visually a man does not appeal to a woman.

If the first “looks” aspect ends, women look for these things in a man which are the things where hyou guys have to take action[spin] if you want to get back together with an ex:

* Security – is he able to offer security, [spin] on a financial basis or emotionally?

* Connection – is a connection deeper than lust there? Do you have common interests or passions? Do your thinking and morals match?

* Attraction – is he confident? Is he sure about who he is? How does he behave in public? Does he lead?

* Intimacy – is he loving? Is he selfish in bed? Is he too clingy?

Women may be far more interested in confident men, nonetheless what they really want is a man who is secure within himself and is actually able to step up and be her man in the romantic relationship.

A great man is somebody that is going to take care of and is ready to die for his girl, someone who aims to always make her happy even if she actually is very happy. Someone who is constantly striving for an even better relationship.

A girl doesn’t want a guy who becomes sluggish and stops wanting to please her anymore. She also doesn’t want a man who is insecure and needy everyday.

She needs a man!

For men, besides finding out the right way to “pick up” girls, you need to know very well what keeps a woman around. Picking up girls by tricking them and not really being you is definitely a surefire technique to get rid of each and every woman you do pick up. Be honest with your girl and stay natural and authentic.

This way a girl will stay and you may also be able getting back an ex if you would like to reverse being dumped.

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