If you want to be good at flirting, it’s extremely important that you can accurately read body-language. Women are always sending out signals, consciously and subconsiously, and if you can notice and interpret them, you’ll know exactly whether she’s interested in going further with you or not. Here are some common body-language cues that you can quickly learn to pick up and interpret:
1. Body Alignment:
This isn’t a single indicator or specific thing she does. It’s about he whole body, in relation to yours. Crossed legs, crossed arms and a body alignment turned away from you mean that she wants you to back off. When she’s all closed up like this, don’t even thing of keeping at it and trying to win her over. Conversly, if she turns her upper body towards you and leans in slightly, that’s a clear indicator of interest. Even before you start interacting with her, you can check out whether one of her feet is pointing in your direction. This is something that people unconsciously do and if you pay attention , you’ll probably catch yourself doing the same thing as well.
As a rule of thumb: The more open and aligned towards you her posture is, the more interested she is in you.
2. Matching and Mirroring:
If you notice a girl “copying” your movements and posture, that’s a very strong indicator of interest. Examples of mirroring: You lean back in your chair, she also leans back in her chair. You reach for your drink, she reaches for her’s. You lean your head on your hand, she does the same. You get the idea.
NLP (Neuro-Linguistic Programming) teaches that you can actually create a deeper connection with someone by consciously mirroring them for a while, until you can take the lead and they start following.
3. Fidgeting (in Certain Cases):
If she fidgets with her hair, that’s almost always a sign that she’s into you (at least a little bit). If she subtly starts stroking her arm, her hand or her neck, that’s also an indicator of interest in most cases (could also be nervousness for reasons other than how great your game is…).
In general, if she fidgets with things that distract her from you (her phone, her handbag, her make-up), she’s trying to get rid of you. If she fidgets in such a way that she can keep eye-contact, it’s a good sign.
4. Surrogate Touching:
This is something that most people don’t know about: Before we start touching each other, we often look to touch stuff the other person owns. If she touches any object that belongs to you or that she associates with you, you can almost think of it as “touching you through the object you own”.
5. Looking Away, Downwards:
This is one of the more subtle ones and can be hard to catch. When two people look into each other’s eyes, it becomes unbearable pretty quickly, unless they’re already very intimate. It usually only takes a second or two before eye-contact is broken. If she looks away sideways, she’s not interested. If she looks away downwards, she’s interested.
Of course, there can always be exceptions to the rule, but if you pay attention, you’ll find this particular cue to be very telling.
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